Sauté the Paneer: Heat 1 tablespoon oil in a nonstick or cast-iron skillet over medium heat.
Add your paneer cubes and fry until golden on most sides (think: crispy edges, soft center).
Remove and set aside on a paper towel.
Pro tip: Soak them in warm water after frying to keep them soft if you’re not serving right away.
Prepare the ground Labadar Masala base:Sauté for 3–4 minutes until the onions start turning golden.
Now add tomatoes, cashews, melon seeds, Kashmiri chilies, cilantro stems, and salt.
Cook down until the tomatoes break apart and the oil starts to separate—around 5–8 minutes.
Add ½ cup water and simmer for another 2 minutes.
Let this cool slightly, then blend into a silky-smooth paste using a high-speed blender.
Add a few tablespoons of water to get it super smooth.
Build the gravy: Add butter and oil, then toss in cumin seeds, cloves, and cardamom pods in the pan.
Let them sizzle for 30 seconds.
Add chopped onions and bell pepper—just a quick 1-minute sauté to keep them a little crisp.
Sprinkle in turmeric powder, chili powder, and garam masala.
Stir until your kitchen smells with the flavors of the masala.
Add the ground masala paste and cover.
Simmer on low heat for 10 minutes, stirring occasionally. The oil should begin to release around the edges—signaling it's ready.
Bring it all together Add sugar, kasuri methi, and a handful of shredded paneer to thicken the gravy naturally.
Stir gently, then nestle in your fried paneer cubes.
Finish with cream and a generous sprinkle of fresh cilantro.
Cover and let it sit for 2–3 minutes before serving—this helps everything absorb the flavor bomb you just created.
Immediately serve Paneer Lababdar